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October 30, 2017 - Lisa Manterfield Leave a Comment

When Truth is Stranger Than Fiction

In A Strange Companion, a lot of peculiar things happen around Kat. Another character in another story might have chalked up all these signs as coincidence, and then maybe I’d be writing a romance novel about a girl who falls for a guy who bakes a wicked chocolate hazelnut marble cake (*see below for more about this). But that’s not this story. This story is full of strange coincidences that may or may not prove that Gabe is back.

A while back, I wrote a post about some of the weird things that happen when you’re dealing with grief. If you’ve ever lost someone you love, you’ll know that nothing is beyond the realm of possibility as you try to come to terms with someone being gone.

There’s always a danger of crossing a line in fiction and making coincidences unbelievable. I mean really, what are the odds of Mai calling Kat by the pet name Gabe gave her, or having a birthmark in the exact same spot as his? But while I was editing the book, I got a sign of my own that weird coincidences happen in real life, not just in fiction.

On my office wall, I have Plot Planner, a long sheet of brown paper where I keep track of my novel and its various storylines. I like to gather pictures as I write, images of how I see the characters and some of the settings. It helps to get the story clear in my head.

I found the perfect picture of Mai, cut it out, and stuck it on my story board. It wasn’t until weeks later that I took a close look at the picture and realized that the dress the little girl is wearing is made from identical fabric to my living room curtains!

Is this a weird coincidence or a sign of something else? I’ll leave you to decide.

* Owen’s chocolate hazelnut marble cake was a big hit with Kat and it was an equally big hit with Mr. Fab when I tried it out on him. If you’d like to get the recipe to make your own, plus recipes for five other dishes mention in A Strange Companion (including Kat’s mother’s prawn cocktail and Jon’s blackberry lavender scones) I’ll send you a free recipe book (plus a collection of short stories) when you sign up for my newsletter.

August 21, 2017 - Lisa Manterfield Leave a Comment

The Idea That Wouldn’t Go Away (and a Goodreads Giveaway)

It’s no secret that A Strange Companion took me a long time to write. I’m talking ten years, maybe longer.

The idea first came to me during a conversation over pancakes. A friend and I were talking about reincarnation and wondering what it would be like if souls found one another over and over in every lifetime. You know, your typical breakfast chit-chat.

I mapped out a complex tale of twisted fates and unexplained connections, and, to be honest, it was a load of rubbish. David Mitchell did a much better job of that story in Cloud Atlas. Plus, that wasn’t the story I wanted to tell. I wanted to write a more personal story of one person’s experience with reuniting with the soul of a loved one. So, bit by bit, draft by draft, the story of A Strange Companion began to form.

The trouble was, my ability didn’t match my vision, and I could never quite get the story just how I wanted it. So I’d abandon the project for a while and work on something new. Sooner or later, the idea would wriggle its way back into my mind and I’d take another pass at the book, each time inching it a little closer to the book I wanted it to be. But I’d always end up disappointed, and eventually, I stuffed the manuscript under the bed and accepted that the story was destined to remain abandoned.

But, not long after I finished writing The Smallest Thing, the story started niggling me again. And this time, I knew how to write it. I knew what I wanted to say and I knew exactly how the story should unfold. So, I dusted off the manuscript and this time I finished it.

If you’ve read the book, you’ll see that the finished story is a far cry from my original idea, thank goodness, but that’s the way it goes. Stories take on a life of their own and they won’t leave you alone until you’ve done them justice.

To hear more about the idea that wouldn’t go away and the twists and turns of the creative process, check out my interview with Melissa Dinwiddie on her Live Creative Now! podcast.

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July 31, 2017 - Lisa Manterfield Leave a Comment

Readers Ask Their Burning Questions. I Answer.

A couple of weeks ago, I sent out an offer to my newsletter subscribers.

“Ask me anything,” I told them.

Fortunately, no one asked anything too awkward or personal, and mostly they wanted to talk about writing, which happens to be my favorite topic.

So, to close out my recent blog tour, here are my responses to my readers’ burning questions:

**Did anyone in your personal life inspire the Em character in The Smallest Thing? Or the father? Or mother?**

I’ve never knowingly based a character directly on someone I know, but bits of my personal experience and the traits of people I’ve met often sneak in.

There is a bit of the teenage me in Em. I didn’t grow up in small village like Em. I grew in the suburbs of a major city, but I remember feeling like I didn’t belong, like I was destined for something else. I think it’s a universal part of growing up, whether you feel confined by a small town, or someone else’s expectations, or just that you don’t fit in somehow, there’s something in each of us that wants to push the boundaries set for us. Em isn’t a rebel, and nor was I, but she wants to test the limits of her upbringing and be her own person.

Em’s dad is the kind of dad he needed to be to push Em into action. He’s a good guy, but the boundaries of his world don’t match Em’s. His role in the story is to provide the initial obstacles for Em and then teach her how to become her own person within the boundaries imposed on her by the quarantine. He is loosely based on a someone I know who is very involved in the community in which I grew up. He’s a really nice guy and does a lot of great conservation work in the community, but I could imagine the challenges of growing up in his shadow and having to live up to his reputation. He provided the basis for the kind of dad that would create friction for Em.

As for Em’s mother, I’d like to state for the record that none of the terrible mothers I write are in the least bit based on my own mother. I’m sure people who’ve read my books look sideways at my poor mother now, but she couldn’t be more different to the characters I write. Em’s mother came out of a writing prompt. I wrote about a character who discovers a secret (always a good prompt for digging up juicy storylines) and realized that Em wasn’t the only person feeling stifled in the village. Em’s mother has an entire unwritten backstory of how she came to find herself in that awful predicament. I’m pretty certain she has a lot of regrets about the decisions she made by the end of Em’s story.

Has anyone relayed to you their own experience with meeting someone they knew in a prior life?

A few weeks ago I posted something about the research I did while writing A Strange Companion, including doing a past life regression. Someone commented that, as a three-year-old child, she had recalled memories of a place she had never visited before. She knew details of her family life and her role in the village, and even recalled some Native American words. It opened up a whole conversation and several women said their children had had similar experiences. I’m sure there are any number of scientific explanations for this, but I find the possibility of reincarnation fascinating.

Why is it important to you to write about young adults?

That period of life between age 16 and 25 is one of huge transitions. You’ve been inching toward adulthood all through your teens, and pushing the independence and self-discovery envelope. Then suddenly, you’re an adult and so many of the safety nets of school, parents, living at home, being supported financially, and being “just a kid” fall away.

I remember being 17 and feeling like I had this whole “adulting” business sorted out. Then I went away to college and my world blew wide open. I had to navigate new relationships with people from all different backgrounds, I had responsibilities, things weren’t handed to me on a plate anymore, and I had to deal with so many “adult” situations that I was totally unprepared for. That period is such a steep learning curve, which makes it fantastic grist for the fiction mill.

And even though I write stories about young people, they’re not solely stories for young people. The themes of letting go of a lost love, navigating grief, discovering who you really are, and figuring out what’s really important in life are universal themes that we have to figure out well into adulthood. As for the topic of navigating relationships, that is a never-ending program of study.

The Smallest Thing **and A Strange Companion are richly set in the English countryside. Any plans to write a book set in SoCal? I’m an Anglophile so I’m happy with more village life.**

They say “write what you know” and I seem to be mining my early life for stories at the moment. That said, I’ve now lived in Southern California for more than half my life, so a shift in venue is bound to happen at some point. When I come up with a new story idea, I do weigh the pros and cons of setting it in one place or another. I needed to set The Smallest Thing in Eyam, and I wanted to set A Strange Companion in my hometown of Sheffield. If a story would be better served being set in L.A., I’d certainly be open to the possibility.

Did you need an agent to get your story out, or did you choose the self-publishing route? Considering the route you took, what caveats do you have for new authors with no publishing experience?

I have published both my fiction and non-fiction books through my own publishing company, Steel Rose Press, so no, I didn’t need an agent for that. What’s wonderful about this current era in publishing is that there are many ways to get a story in front of readers. There are also countless authors willing to share their experiences online, and offer lots of great advice for new authors. My caveat would be that, no matter which publication path you choose, make sure your story is ready to be read. Work on your craft, find trusted beta readers, be willing to accept feedback, and do the work to make the book the best it can be. If you send out a half-baked story to an agent or publisher, you risk a rejection notice and potentially burning a bridge for future work. But if you self-publish a half-baked book, readers will send their rejection slips via bad reviews, word-of-mouth, and with their future purchasing decisions. The trick is finding the balance between getting your work into the world where it can be read, and not publishing in haste, just because you can.

What’s the next book you’re writing? When will that be out?

At the moment, I have several projects bubbling away. I have a couple of novels brewing and some shorter pieces. I keep stirring them and testing their worth. Eventually, one of them will bubble up and demand to be written.

The thing with writing a novel is that you have to live with the idea for a long time. Not just through that first draft, but through numerous revisions and editing, then through the publication process, and then you have to talk about it once it’s published. I’m waiting to see which of my ideas has the necessary heat. So, it might be a while before the next novel is ready.

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A big thank you to everyone who submitted questions. I answered lots of other great questions during the blog tour. If you missed it, you can still catch up and visit the stops. Here is a rundown of all the sites I visited:

July 18: Rebecca Lacko and I discuss researching and writing The Smallest Thing, why fathers figure so prominently in my stories, and how published authors can find effective book marketing techniques.
July 19: At A New Look on Books I answer the question, “Could you be a hero?” Hint: the answer is “yes” but you’ll have to read the post to see why.
July 20: Heather Sunseri had lots of great questions about favorite destinations and how travel has colored my writing.
July 21: At Booked for Review, I chatted about being a late bloomer and how the wrong path can lead to the right destination.
July 22: In a rooftop hotel lounge overlooking the Pacific Ocean, Michael Raymond and I discussed killing off beloved characters, tricks for finding a characters voice, and how a scratched record marked a turning point in my musical evolution.
July 23: Farah Oomerbhoy asks about the one wish I have for my books, and pries a nugget of Aiden trivia out of me.
July 24: Mixed Bag Mama reviews The Smallest Thing.
July 25: I visit Pamela Toler at History in the Margins to tell the real-life story of the courageous villagers of Eyam.
July 26: YA Book Divas weigh in on The Smallest Thing with their review.
July 27: The Reading Wolf gushes in her review of The Smallest Thing.

June 26, 2017 - Lisa Manterfield 2 Comments

I was Johann in a Past Life

While writing A Strange Companion, I did a lot of research into past lives. I read some of the pre-eminent experts in reincarnation and sifted through countless stories of past life experiences. But perhaps the most intriguing day of research came when I attended a Hay House conference and subjected myself to a past life regression.

A Skeptic’s Guide to Reincarnation

I’ll admit right now that, like Kat, I was skeptical, and perhaps a little bit nervous. Would I feel weird, would it be frightening, and what if (my overactive writer’s imagination wanted to know) I somehow became trapped in my past life and couldn’t get back? What if I uncovered some terrible past life trauma that would stay with me for the reminder of my current life?

Regardless, in the name of science, I decided to keep my mind open and trust that nothing untoward would happen to me.

I had chosen this particular conference because of one speaker. Dr. Brian Weiss was a respectable psychiatrist when one of his patients, Catherine, began recalling what could only be past life memories, and delivering messages from another realm. That encounter became the basis for his books Many Lives, Many Masters and Only Love is Real, both of which formed the foundation of my research. If I was going to visit my past lives, I wanted it to be with Dr. Weiss.

Past Life Revelations

In a room full of people, Dr. Weiss talked us down into a state of deep relaxation and through his method for tapping into past lives. In the first, we chose a door that would lead us into a particular era. I opted for Ancient Rome, where I saw myself as a Roman legionnaire whose life was in danger because I had fallen for the wrong woman. A mere sentry, I had lost my heart to a woman who was way above my station. Even in my past life, I was a hopeless romantic. I chalked this vision up to watching too many gladiator movies, and moved on.

In the next regression, we were taken back again to another incarnation and asked to picture scenes from that life. I pictured a wide valley, that I assumed was somewhere in Northern Europe. The people lived in huts in a settlement, and were perhaps farmers, maybe Vikings, Celts, or Anglo-Saxons. I seemed to be someone important in the village, because at one point, a group of men rode into the village on horseback with a message that I had been summoned to the leader. Later, the regression moved us to the end of that life, where I died of a serious wound, surrounded by my people. I was left with the feeling that I had lived a noble life and was leaving behind people who really cared about me.

During the regression, two very specific details stood out. One was that my name was Johann, and the other was that I owned a piece of important jewelry that was either sacred or a mark of status. I saw the piece very clearly and was able to sketch what I could recall afterwards, hoping to be able to find a picture online that would indicate the place and era. Sadly, I’m not much of an artist, and I’ve yet to find anything definitive.

Lingering Feelings

Perhaps the strangest part of the experience was the emotions I felt during the regressions. I wasn’t just seeing images, as if I were watching a movie. They were accompanied by strong feelings of joy, satisfaction, sorrow, and fear. I left the session feeling tired, but strangely peaceful, not at all distraught or afraid, but with those emotions still lingering, as if they had really happened.

Like Kat, though, I am a scientist at heart, and a born skeptic. I need answers and explanations, but I left with none. Maybe the images I saw were just pulled from my imagination. Maybe I saw what I wanted to see or what was most interesting to my relaxed mind. I’m a writer, after all, and stories are what I do.

But even now, several years after the experience, I’m still left with the feeling that I tapped into something important, something meaningful to me. I don’t have a firm opinion about reincarnation, but I’m open to the idea that we have connections to others that cannot be explained by science. I find it comforting that we might not just disappear into oblivion and that the people we love stay connected with us in some way.

And I think it’s very cool that I was once Johann, beloved leader of an ancient people, and that I owned an important piece of sacred jewelry.

July 22, 2016 - Lisa Manterfield 5 Comments

I’m Scared, So I Know I’m Onto Something Good

ASC-Front-med — Behold! The gorgeous cover of my new book.

There’s a school of thought that says: When you start to feel afraid of taking a leap or making a change, that’s when you know you’re making the right decision. I’m choosing to subscribe to this school of thought this week, because I’m starting to feel nervous about an upcoming leap of faith.

A couple of months ago I had a brilliant idea. You know the kind I mean. It came to me in an instant and I immediately wondered why I hadn’t thought of it sooner. I began thinking about this idea all the time and planning out how it would work. And the more I thought about it, the more it seemed like a really great idea. So, I told a couple of people and they thought it was a good idea. So I told a couple more. And before I knew it, I was committed.

Then this week, things started to get real. The pieces of my plan began clicking into place, money changed hands, and I passed the point of no return, or at least the point of no return without humiliation. Suddenly, I was really nervous.

All the reasons why this was the best idea I’ve ever had suddenly got a little fuzzy at the edges. I woke up in the night with a list of all the things that could go wrong, all the reasons why this was a stupid idea, and I knew I had to make a decision. I could:

Call the whole thing off, cut my losses, and go back to my old safe, but ineffective, way of doing things.
Put it off a couple more weeks, give myself some time to firm up a few more details and mitigate some of the potential disasters.
Pinch my nose, close my eyes, and leap in feet first, hoping that I’d figured out quickly how to swim.

I’ll admit that all these options looked good, but finally, I made a decision. The only way I would ever truly know if this was the best idea since sliced bread was to commit and go for it.

So, here goes…

Next week, Wednesday July 27, I will launch my new serialized novel, A Strange Companion. I will publish a new chapter of the novel every single week until I get to “The End”, sometime in early 2017.

I’ve never done anything like this before and honestly, it goes against all my beliefs about how to go about publishing a book. I’m afraid it won’t be good enough. I’m afraid people won’t like it. I’m afraid I’ll get to Chapter 5 or 10 or 20 and realize I started in the wrong place or that there’s an important character or set-up that really needed to appear in Chapter 7.

Regardless, I’m doing it.

If you want to find out a bit more about this story, go to the book’s spiffy new web page. You can also subscribe so I can land in your inbox next week and bring with me Chapter One of A Strange Companion.

See you then!